What Can I Do To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?
First let me ask a question: Are you feeling like everything you do pushes your ex away further? Is this describing your situation pretty closely? Do you find yourself wondering "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back" at every turn? Here are some tips that will greatly improve your chances of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.
Obviously right now you are serious about saving or rekindling your relationship. But if you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.
Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, then you need to STOP doing these things right now.
You’re going to need to take a completely fresh approach, so follow this strategy instead;
First thing to do is to take a DEEP BREATH! Then begin this strategy by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time, when there is no communication between you and your ex boyfriend, you can focus on ways that you can help you improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand.
WARNING: This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways of chasing him.
During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor! NOW your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him.
You must remember that the key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it.
You are wondering "How to get your ex boyfriend back". Now you should have a fairly basic understanding on how common mistakes can be avoided. Once you implement this basic strategy you can restore a balance and allow your ex to remember why he loved you & wanted to be with you in the first place.
Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him. Make yourself appear mysterious and he will be reminded why he loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (remember not to over do it!) and let him make the first move, and you will come out on top.
Today's Love Quote:
Don't find love, let love find you.
That's why it's called falling in love,
because you don't force yourself to fall,
you just fall.
~ Unknown ~
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